it seems that some people are more prone to initiating 'verbal abuse' matches with other people.the reason why i'm asking this is that i just experienced that done to me today %26 it didn't feel good at all.one of my best friends got mad at me %26 upto now i still don't know what the real reason is.all i can think of is either she not getting the place she wanted to sit in class(so venting her frusteration on me) or my 'flinging a college notice onto her desk after she said 'ignore her' to my other friend'.either way,both of these ARE petty reasons to get mad at a best friend so easily.(maybe it's because she's known for her toughness,most of the guys are intimidated by her as well-the usual rare tomboy,lol)anyway,i apologised to her(after 2 hours of boredom %26 not knowing why 'i'm' apologising-hate holding grudges)she's ok with me %26 all is fine now.
why is it so hard for some people to keep a grip on their temper when things aren't going well %26 esp. to admit they're wrong %26 apologise?
Answer:
there are all types of people in this world who have different types of personalitys. what means alot to one person may not matter that much to another.
would your garden look as good if all the flowers were the same type and colour?
accept that some people have a fiesty personality and they will get involved in situations at a higher level. even if you dont agree with what they are saying, you must listen and then calmly let the conversation progress. do not challenge that person otherwise you will get an arguement, just simply listen and let it flow until you can move onto a different topic.
my husband and i used to argue because we are both strong characters, but now instead of standing there argueing about what is right, we let it drop. you have to accept that this girl is fiesty and will challenge your ideas or conversation so if you want to be friends, you will just have to accept this. if not, then you should make new friends and not see this person anymore.
well screw it. there are more important things to do.
i personally can't stand people with short tempers.
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