when im around people i act awkward and weird and i feel uncomfortable..its like i feel people are watching my every move.. what is wrong with me??
Answer:
It sounds like you have social anxiety.
Low self esteem. You need to be confident in yourself so that you dont worry about those things.
there is nothing wrong with you,your just a bit shy,mix more with people,get to know them,try and relax and talk.
It seems to me as if you are more interested in being accepted than to be the voice of reason or input.
If these are truly your friends, they will accept your input, no matter what point of viewyou may have.
Think of it this way: if you are so self-conscious, so focused on yourself, mightn't it be possible that others feel the same way? That they also feel awkward and uncomfortable? Sweetie, most of the time everyone in this world who is fairly young is self-centered. They're not watching anyone else's every move because they're too intent on making sure they don't make any wrong moves of their own!
Start thinking this way, and you will begin to relax and make an effort to make those around you feel at ease. Be kind, be courteous, be funny if that's in your nature. People will love to be around you and will be drawn to you like a magnet.
theres nothing wrong with you,just be yourself and learn to socialized with people around you so you dont feel awkward and left alone or being watch..sometimes it makes you feel that way if you are not interacting with them.just go on and relax, attend parties where you can mingle with people so you get used to it and dont be shy.goodluck!!!
I have that too, it is why I don't have friends. It's called Social Anxiety Disorder, had it for a long time. I'd talk to a parent or counselor.
I've felt this alot, even with strangers. I think everyone feels this when theyre nervous or feels some sort of anxiety. I've been told that the more you talk to people the more used to this you will get, and then feel less awkward. Try talking to someone youre comfortable with. maybe a family member or good friend. Then compare how you act around them and talk to them to how you do it with the people who make you nervous. Its possible you're not really doing anything different, you just feel different. And if thats the case, its just a feeling of being awkard or uncomfortable, and not feeling uncomfortable because youre acting weird. Hope that helps.
maybe u think that if u`ll be yourself, u`ll do something wrong and people will laugh at u. But, remember, u fell more comfortable if u are...u. maybe u don`t feel comfortable with some people. Than stay with the others and be u. No one will think that u aren`t a good friend or something if u run across the road and u fall. they will just laugh a bit at u, but that`s good because u make them feel good and laugh, which is a good think.
Talk about what u like and keep in the disscution things u like to talk about. No one feels comfortable if he doesn`t understand nothing in a conversation or if he doesn`t like the subject.
be u . I am me (a bit crazy), but people accept me as I am and the same thing will happend to you
Low self esteem. Be yourself and they'll like you. If not, why would you want them to like you anyways?
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