Saturday, October 31, 2009

Why do i keep pushing people away?

I have been getting really bad this last year, im only 24 and have pushed almost everyone i loved away. I was diagnosed with depression a year ago and they all know this, but its like they still don't get me and i get mad. The only one who i really talk to anymore is my boyfriend and i am leaving soon. Im really scared here, im gonna end up a lonley old lady if i dont knock this off.
Answer:
You probably push people away because if they are distant to you, they can't hurt or upset you.

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It is common with depression...really push yourself to not exclude yourself. Remind others around you to not let you do that.
I think it is possible you have abandonment issues.You don't want to let anyone get close to you because you fear they will leave you for some reason or another.It is hard to get over in fact I don't think you ever will be able to just "Get over" this affliction You just have to try and go against it.Even if it feels really uncomfortable try just faking it.That might work.
You need to see a mental health professional. We are miles away from you. You need face time with a pro. It might be depresion, but it might also be something else. Good Luck. You'll be OK
Do what you've been doing

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